Updated on 4/26/16
This piece started with the idea "the first day of boarding school." After some thinking and mulling over what to say about this first day, it dawned on me. That's not the way to do it.The first day of boarding school is important, but in every school that I attended or worked in the first day is exactly that, the first day.
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Arrival Day For New Students
Opening day for new students can be a little slow, but it's mostly straightforward. You'll check-in at a main location; move through the different school departments making sure that each has all of the information that they need about you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗. Main office, dormitory, athletics, academics, infirmary/nurse is a normal course of events.
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You'll spend most of you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r time moving into the dorm. (Hopefully you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗 read our article "What to Bring to a Boarding School" and are following our advice about coordinating what to bring with you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r new roommate. You don't want to duplicate and have too much.)
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Student leaders are usually out in force to help with the heavy lifting; this group often sports a colorful t-shirt uniform identifying them as a helpful resource. Expect them to introduce themselves and offer to help move you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r goodies from the car to the building.
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Remember, upon arrival, school rules are in effect.
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Attend all meetings and presentations
Various school departments will hold introductory meetings/presentations introducing themselves and giving contact information to parents.
Attend all of these. Learn the basic workings of the school. Who's who and which office does what. Put a name with a face. Parents learn whom to contact and students learn with whom to talk if you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗 have a question.
Separating — the hard part
With you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r stuff moved in, all information in place and meetings over, it's time for mom and dad to leave. It's hard.My advice for mom, dad, and student. Give 'em a hug. Tell 'em to be good; work hard; do what the school asks; and call if they need anything. That's it.
Check-in in a day or two.
Parents, obey the cardinal rule. Do not linger. Resist the urge to stay in the area and come back to campus- just to check- over the next few days.
Orientation has to be able to have its effect on students. Students need to meet each other. Focus on their new 中国福利彩票app靠谱吗. Learn the ropes of the institution and begin living and sharing with each other. The sooner these relationships grow and develop the sooner you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗'll start hearing about how great my new school is and how much you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r student loves his/her new 中国福利彩票app靠谱吗.
Opening of School rule of thumb: give you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗r student and the school a minimum of 14 days to acclimate before visiting. Two weeks is about the time it takes to settle a school into the daily routine.
Fourteen days is minimum, waiting until Parent's Weekend- about 6-8 weeks into the fall- is ideal.
Boarding School Orientation
Our advice for orientation is simple. Attend and do everything.
New students normally come in for a day or two on their own to open the new year. This lets new students meet and share with each other before the knowledgeable old hands return to influence the chemistry.
Enjoy this first day or two; you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗'll meet all the new kids who have all of the same questions and much in common. Some of you中国福利彩票app靠谱吗 will become friends for years.Here the goal is simple; seek and find positive friends.
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Get out. Meet as many community members as possible- students, faculty, office staff, maintenance, and kitchen staff. Participate in everything.